Where Do I Start?
Free Guide
Where Do I Even Start?
A free guide for women who know they need to leave and don’t know how.
Every week, women send me some version of the same message.
I have little kids. I’ve been home with them for years. Nothing is in my name. I know I need to leave, and I’m terrified.
This guide is my answer. It’s six practical steps I’d walk a friend through: picturing your life a year from now, getting money of your own, finding work and childcare, leaning on your community, quietly gathering your evidence and documents, and getting the help you’re entitled to once you’re out. It also covers what to do before you go, including how to find a shelter near you.
You don’t need the whole plan tonight. You need the next step.
Download this on a phone or computer he can’t access. This guide is general information, not legal advice. Laws vary by state, so please talk to a local family law attorney about your situation. If you are in danger right now, call 911.

